After many messages and conversations in the video chat you are assigned the first date. You have the impression that your interlocutor will also look forward to a pleasant meeting. The importance for both is to create a good impression when meeting in real world.
Enjoy a date
It happens that all the omens were magnificent. Communication was lively, witty, and enjoyable for both parties. You seemed to find a soulmate, and a date is just a formality. However, in a real meeting, the spark did not happen. Everything was nice, but nothing more.
It remains only to conclude that not every good flirt leads to a stable relationship. Even if the first messages and phone calls promised much more. Do not be discouraged, but simply enjoy a friendly conversation in a pleasant environment.
For a first date, choose a beautiful, lively place. Walks will be ideal, meeting in your favorite cafe or a cozy restaurant too. You will be in a dynamic but at the same time calm atmosphere that stimulates the conversation. This is valuable if nothing else comes to mind. In addition, if the date is not promising, it will be easier to leave.
Disconnect the phone
Of course, it is nice when many friends value your company. Or you have a responsible job where your competence is really needed. You probably have something to discuss and organize. However, doing this on a first date is extremely impolite, as the partner deserves your full attention.
Here is the note: during the meeting, give the phone a break and spend your time on perhaps a soulmate.
Show your cheerfulness
Devote communication only to the beautiful aspects of life. Talk calmly about work, leisure or family. Tell us about your dreams, plans and what you want to achieve in life. Disappointment in past relationships, boss annoyance and other difficult topics is better not to raise. This will not only be more pleasant for your date, but also allow you to spend time positively on both sides.
Meet me again?
The first date came to an end. Will there be a second one? Was the meeting harmonious? Or do you think another date will be pointless. In any case, talk about it openly. Of course, it is difficult, but a direct refusal will help to avoid hopes for a new meeting with your interlocutor.
On the other hand, if a spark arose between you, then both of you will be happy for a second date. Feel free to take a step towards your love.